my boyfriend has been talking a lot about his two ex lately
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
im 19 and he's 21. we've started seeing each other for the past five months. im happy being in this relationship and so is he. however, my boyfriend has been talking a lot about his two ex lately. he told me that they called him frequently and even asked him out. i know it is not wrong for them to remain as friends, but im afraid the friendship might turn into sexual attraction- like before. i have a feeling that his ex still have feelings for him, and is always finding opportunity to spend time with him. i do trust him, yet i feel afraid that his ex will not give up winning him back. please help..
In any relationship, you have to have trust that the partner will remain faithful and committed. You have that right now, but you're uneasy that you'll lose it to his ex's. They're ex-girlfriends for a reason. Trust your boyfriend that there's nothing more to it, but tell him that you aren't comfortable with him going out with them. If you fight it, then there's more reason for him to be on edge in the relationship and that's not what you want. He's not given you any reason yet not to trust him, so let it stay like it is.
-- from Marc
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