Mixed messages! What do I do?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok so there's this shy girl that i've started hanging out with since she's friends with some of my friends. I've gotten to know her enough to know i like her. I've just recently heard from some of her friends that she likes me back but for that past few days, she's been sending mixed messages to me whenever i'm around her. I'm not sure whether she's bothered by me or if she likes me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't seem to want to talk about that subject. I'm lost by this point and i'd like to know how i could get her to talk about it with me. If i could get a reply i'd be really happy and thankful so if it's no trouble. Thanks
I'd suggest staying friends with this girl, and if she does want more, she'll let you know. In the meantime, don't pursue her because she's reacting so oddly all the time. You need someone in your life who will be interested in you, not someone who plays with your heartstrings on a daily basis. The best way to get over someone is to get involved with someone new. Get involved in group activities and find new friends.... one of whom may turn out to be better than just a friend.
-- from Marc
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