Translating Guy Speak
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
first thing if a guy says he has to find him self what exactly does that mean? if a guy say he wants to say yes but he want to say no at the same time because he doesn't want to hurt the friendship what do you do? if you are dating someone and you just talk to a nother guy and he asks your friend if you have something else going on with them what would you do?
If you think there's a Universal Guy Translator, you are WRONG. Every single guy is different. They all have different emotions, different history. The question is, if you're dating this guy, how come YOU do not know what he means when he talks to you? Haven't you been talking and discussing things up until now?
The number one, most important thing you can have in any relationship is trust. Either you trust him enough to be truly honest with him, and he trusts you enough to explain what he means, or it isn't going to work. Instead of relying on vague catch phrases and third party guesses, ASK HIM. Either he trusts you enough to tell you what he is feeling - or you have some serious problems.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com