Getting over a guy. is it possible?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
im shure u have incountered questions liek this bfore...but im guessing not this extent...im thirteen..and have liked a guy since i was in grade one ..and probably before that...hes always been a realy close friend ..and i get along with his family ...i also see him everyday at skool...we have fun and talk all the time*thou my friends consider it flirting*...but he is soooo hot ..and i know im not that pretty..i guess im alright ...so i think hell never like me ...people always say taht we love each other and that one day were gonna get married...and that makes it really hard to stop liking him...my friends have liked him in the past but always stopped because they said that he flirts with me too much...the main thing is ...i dont want to liek him anymore...ivel iekd him to long ..and i have cried to many times thinking he doesnt like me ...i jsut ...i dont want to liek him anymore ..can u help me...the reason i found ur site is because i was looking for things to get over him..it super hard cuz im obsessed...i dont think i ever wioll get over him...please help me ...im desperate....
You're a very mature girl to know what's going on and what you want. Letting go of a relationship is always a difficult thing, and you'll probably have a couple of sleepless nights. But it will be worth it in the long run for you to date other guys and see how other relationships are.
Some ways of getting him out of your head is to join in other groups and make new friends. Do activities so that you're not pining away for your guy, but you're out having fun. Read books, listen to new music (not the stuff that makes you think of him!), and check out new games with your friends.
I wish you the best!
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com