I think I made a mistake, now how do I get him back?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My fiancee and I broke up almost a year ago, we were going to get married and we even bought a house together, I wasn't always nice to him, he would nag at me over talking to my childrren's father, and I just couldn't take it anymore so, I told him to leave, and now I miss him, He treated me wonderful for example roses, candles, wine, all the love I wanted, I want him back. but the problem is, is that he just had a baby with someone else, and I am devestated I think all my chances of us getting back together I blew, and I am sorry I made the mistake, what can I do?, we still own the house together, and I still have my wedding dress.
Some mistakes aren't fixable, they are only there to learn from. It sounds to me like he's moved on with his life and found someone new to build a new life with. You're going to need to do the same. I understand your hurt and confusion over this... it's hard to let go of dreams and wishes for a better relationship than the one you had, and it's hard to start over again. But I think that's what you're going to have to do, since it's obvious he has. The next person that you have a relationship with will be better for you because you're going to be more aware of what you want in a relationship and what you are and aren't willing to put up with. But getting over the old relationship will be tough.
My thoughts are with you.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com