Tangled in the middle
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
what do i do? i was with this guys and then he said he didnt like me anymore and liked my best friend so they went out but then he said he still had something for me just couldnt tell anyone! and then they broke up and me and him did stuff and he said he lied me and my best friend but now him and my best friend are back together but we still do stuff but i want to go out wit him but he is together wit my friend and i cant keep doing this to my friend but then i think she did it to me so yea! please help me wat do i do??
Sounds like he's one confused guy! And it sounds like you are also confused over whether you want a friend or a boyfriend, since you won't be able to keep them both. I suggest that you spend some time thinking about what you want more, and perhaps think of a third option -- find someone new that will sweep you off your feet and be the perfect person for you. This guy isn't, he's already cheated on you, cheated on his girlfriend, and isn't willing to put in the commitment to being a good boyfriend. You deserve better than this!
Good luck to you!
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com