My Ex Came Back

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i have been dating my current boyfriend (bachlor 1) for almost 2 years now but after almost a year and a half we broke up he said that we were too serious for him and that i was suffocating him. i was devistated. after a while i started dating this new guy (bachlor 2) and we got kinda serious pretty fast and it bothered me a little bit but not too too bad.

well bachlor 1 and i started talking again so i broke it off with bachlor 2 and now that we are back together bachlor feels like he cannot trust me because i was with bachlor 2. i sort of understand it because we were very much in love but i didn't think i was ever going to get him back so i tried to move on. How do i make bachlor 1 realize that i am madly in love with him and that all i want is to be with him? Advice
Look, he abandoned you. He can't say "I am going to leave but this means you sit in your house all alone for the rest of your life in case I change my mind". That would be childish. If he wanted to stay he could have. He chose to leave. Leaving means he is giving up on his responsibility to you. So if anyone feels like they cannot trust someone it is YOU - because he proved he would run away from issues. If he is STILL insecure that is something he has to work on.

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