A bird in the hand.....
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
there this girl that i worked with and didnt have any feelings for her and then started going places, hanging out , going out for dinner movies, sleeping in the same bed ,but we never did anything beacause she has a boyfriend. she told me before that she was in love with two people and was me and her boyfriend. And im in love with her as well , i dont know what to do about this and it really bothers me , any advise??
Falling in love is always a gamble, but it looks to me like you're playing a losing hand. She's involved with someone else and it's going to be messy no matter what happens. You don't want to be there when it all goes down. Either she breaks up with you, which will be horrible, or she'll break up with the other guy and then you'll always wonder whether she's really over him or whether she's looking to hook up with him on the side. She's with you, after all, when she's supposed to be faithful to someone else. Nothing stopping her from doing the same to you.
Sorry to be such a pessimist, but I'm not liking the sound of this... go find yourself someone new and unattached and have a great new relationship and let this one slide away... you'll be happier in the long run.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com