And so what do I do?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am talking to this girl that i really like and i want her to be my girlfriend. She keeps telling me that she does not want to be with anyone right now. Some times when i go over her house she hugs me and kiss me. So i am very confused i don't no what to do. is she just playing games with me and how can i get her be my girlfriend. Plus how can i show her that i really care and love her. Advice
It's always tough to figure out how to make someone love you. The toughest part of it is that there's -no way- to make someone love you, they have to do it on their own. And if the feelings aren't there, there's no way to magically create them. She's said that she doesn't want a relationship right now. You need to give her space until she changes her mind. Unfortunately, if you really feel she's the one for you, then you'll have to put up with this back and forth behavior. You need to seriously look at this and decide whether it's better for you to keep her as a friend and move on to someone else for a romantic partner.

Good luck with it!

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