I Hurt Her when we Broke Up
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
my girlfriend just broke up with me about 3 days ago due to her feelings changing. She feels like more than any girl to me so it hurts to lose a love like this. But when we broke up i said some things that were hurtfull and things i shouldn't of said. But i appologized to her with tears in my eyes and she seemed sad not to say yes. But how do i keep my cool while also keeping a close relationship to maybe get her back someday?
It's very common for people to say things they don't mean when they are breaking up. We feel very hurt, we lash out and say things in the depths of our despair. You can really hold that against someone, that is a normal thing to do. So hopefully she will realize that. As far as getting back with her, we have a TON of tips on the site on how to do that - it takes time and patience. Remember, you broke up for a reason - things weren't great. So you have to sit down and address the real issues, and find real solutions.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com