Guy friends want romance

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have many guy friends and I just like them as friends. I am really nice to them and I listen to their problems but when I find out that one of them likes me as more than a friend I get scared and I stop talking to them because it makes the friendship awkward. Am I doing something wrong, should I stop being nice to my guy friends so that they don't like me that way?
Help me please! Advice
Apparently a lot of guys find you attractive and want to change from friends to boyfriend. Presumably you will find one you like, so keep being friends. However, when a guy you don't especially like trys to change the relationship, just say no but keep on being friends even if it is awkward.

Good luck,

-- from George
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