Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
i am due to get married in 2 weeks and i know this is not wedding nerves i have felt like this for about1 year now MY PARTNER WETHER HE MEANS IT OR NOT HAS THE ABILITY TO MAKE ME FEEL TOTally useless and inadequate 97% of the time
i feel like i cant do anything right he has his own business and i try to help but lately i have screwed up
he always thinks i am stealing from him he always questions me about who i have been on the phone to he goes daft when use the house phone to make calls so i then go to use my mobile and he then moans about that because he pays the bills and what wages i get people will tell you i am not a demanding person i like to go with the flow that is if i want to but he is making me feel useless and unworthy of anything he sits and watches me struggle with 3 kids playing up and wont give them a row unless i basically beg for him to do it i dont know if i want to tell him to leave or try and work thruogh this i have tried talking to him before and it seemed like he listened but only a week later he was back to his usual self what do i do. i dont mind being on my own with the kids i sometimes think i would be better off
Just know that if you marry him things are likely to get worse as he will take you more for granted.
-- from George
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