First Sex - Is it Painful?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
is it true that when one is penetrated just for the first time once and no other thrusting takes place and she spends two years without doing any sex she goes back into feeling pain all over again once she decides to have sex again? Advice
The pain of a first intercourse is that the hymen (assuming it is there and whole) is ripped open. Once that is done, it's done. Sure, if you are a small girl with a big boy, there is always the chance that it will be uncomfortable because of that size difference. It's like stuffing a big hot dog into a tiny roll, the roll will have to stretch open. But the biggest pain-causer - the hymen - is gone once you have sex that first time.

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