I Can't Just Talk to Her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok, I really need help.I go to high school. There is this girl i see all the time. Her friend knows i like the girl, and has told her. I see this girl everyday between classes and after school. I look at her as she passes me and she looks at me too. I havn't smiled yet, and neither has she. I don't know if she's interested or what. But I really wanna talk to her. But i can't just go up to someone and start talking....HELP!
If you're not willing to TALK to her, I'm not sure what you expect out of this relationship :) Yes, you're shy. Yes, it's a risk. But life is about risks, and either you take them and make progress, or you hide in your room and never get anything done. You had to try riding a bike many times before you succeeded. You have to just take a deep breath and do it.
We're not talking about having long discussions with her. Just say HI - that's a start!
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com