My Ex is Emotionally Abusive
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My question is: Why does he still act like my boyfriend, and yet he broke up with me?? We were together for over a year...the relationship was great, one of the best i've had..I put myself out on a limb for him, I did what i could..I never cheated on him, nor him, me....He made mention of his daughter and his baby's mom, then he tells me that they're coming down on a Friday. I had 2 days to move out, and I moved out of state to start over....He tracked me down, he keeps tabs on me...I still go to see him on occasion....Now, I do love him...I know he doesn't love me, but why act jealous if another guy calls? Why make snide remarks when I make a statement...i.e.. if i say I have something to do before I go tosee him, he'll say, "what's his name?"
If he doesn't care, then why is he doing this??? I'm confused and hurt....and the worst part is.....I want my baby back......Please help....
I hate to say this, but some guys are just jerks. This guy kicked you out with 2 days notice?? He didn't care about you at all, to do that to you. But he still wants to hurt you even more after that. I would stop answering his calls, not call him, and go cold turkey. When you find a guy who is much better for you (which you will soon!) you will realize just how nasty this ex was, and good riddance.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com