My Ex is Emotionally Abusive

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My question is: Why does he still act like my boyfriend, and yet he broke up with me?? We were together for over a year...the relationship was great, one of the best i've had..I put myself out on a limb for him, I did what i could..I never cheated on him, nor him, me....He made mention of his daughter and his baby's mom, then he tells me that they're coming down on a Friday. I had 2 days to move out, and I moved out of state to start over....He tracked me down, he keeps tabs on me...I still go to see him on occasion....Now, I do love him...I know he doesn't love me, but why act jealous if another guy calls? Why make snide remarks when I make a statement...i.e.. if i say I have something to do before I go tosee him, he'll say, "what's his name?"
If he doesn't care, then why is he doing this??? I'm confused and hurt....and the worst part is.....I want my baby back......Please help.... Advice
I hate to say this, but some guys are just jerks. This guy kicked you out with 2 days notice?? He didn't care about you at all, to do that to you. But he still wants to hurt you even more after that. I would stop answering his calls, not call him, and go cold turkey. When you find a guy who is much better for you (which you will soon!) you will realize just how nasty this ex was, and good riddance.

-- from Lisa
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