I was Too Clingy
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
my boyfriend broke up with about 3 months ago, and it tore me apart. I really really liked him, and he is all i think about. he told his friends he broke up with me because i was too "clingy" (which is kinda true :p) I want to get him back some how with out looking desperate and clingy. can you please help me?!
I have a TON of tips on the site about getting your ex back, even an ebook on it. It's good at least that you see what the problem was and realize it was a problem. People want to be loved but not smothered. If you can start being friends with him again, and work on the friendship without trying to monopolize him, you can show him first hand that this will work. Show him that you can care about him without trying to control him.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com