They Won't Talk to Me

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hi there! My question is that how can i become friends with a girl if they don't even want to talk to me. I try to stoke up a friendly conversation like, "it' hot today is'nt it? They just say yeah and begin with their cellphones, or just walk away. I really dont have alot of friends, just like two, and both are guys. And the girls that i do talk to that i'm intrested in are usally married, or have a boyfriend. And when i do meet a girl, they usually say i'll call you back, they never do. What advice can you give me? Advice
It sounds like you need to practice your flirting skills! Most people won't have much to say about a generic weather conversation - but if you talk about something more interesting, they might keep talking. For example if a girl is wearing a tshirt about a band, you could mention that the new CD was coming out for the band next week, and what did they think about the latest song on it. You want to ask them a question that they can't just say yes or no to - and that they are interested in. I have a TON of tips on the site about learning how to do that. It all comes down to paying attention to what the girl is wearing, doing and saying to other people.

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