All Good Women are Taken
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend left me almost two years. I was deeply in love with her and still am in a way. Last I heard she was getting married and I've had a suspicion that she left me for another man. All this time I've felt like I'll never get over it. Everyone tells me to let it go, but they don't know how I feel. What's more, I think all the good women are taken and I'll never find the right woman for me. What do I do?
Well first, read through the thousands of questions on this site, and there are a TON from women who think all the good men are gone. These women are pretty, loyal, smart, fun and can't find any good guys. So obviously they are out there! If you aren't finding them, then you aren't looking very hard!
It's easy to build a fantasy obsession about an ex. It can really damage your entire life! Some period of "mourning" is normal, but after 2 years, you really need to give yourself a good shake. You are still quite young, and you are letting some great years of your life be wasted by moping after someone who is completely gone from your life. Get out and do the things you love, in situations where you can meet other people. You'll find that you'll run into women who are single, share your interests and who are much better for you than that ex ever was.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com