I Cheated on Her - I Want her Back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i'm only 15 i had a girlfriend she was 14 we went out for a month then we broke up becaue her friend told her that i cheating on and now we stated talking on the phone then i wrote her a letter it said i miss her and i love her with all my hart and and i called her i ased her if i can have another chance but she said i dont give other chances. so that how it goes i love her very much and i what her back with her so bad is their still a chance?
If you cheat on someone, you have to expect this result. A relationship is founded on trust. If you can't trust the person you're with, there really isn't a relationship. It's not even like you were finally honest and told her - she had to find out from someone else!
You need to ask yourself, if you loved her so much, why you betrayed her. Then sit down and talk to her about this, explain that you have really learned your lesson and would never, ever do it again. And then it could easily take you weeks to months to win her trust back. Most people will not be able to trust you again, but if you really proved that you were serious, she might be willing to give it another try.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com