My Girlfriend is Confused

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
me and my girlfriend broke up sat because she said she wanted to take a break cause she has changed from her old self. she used to say she loved me but i asked when we broke up if she really did and she said she thought she did but she doesnt. so should i wait on her even though i really love her but she doesnt love me? Advice
It sounds like she is really confused here and she isn't being fully honest with you. Sure, she's changed. We ALL change. That's what growing up is all about, our interests change, our energy levels change, heck our hair color changes :) Change is normal! What she should be telling you is WHAT about the relationship now bothers her. Is it that she used to love rollerblading with you - but now she's bored of rollerblading? Is it that she used to love riding horses with you - but now she hates horses? She needs to tell you WHAT is wrong. That is part of being in a mature relationship - you talk honestly about any problems.

If you don't know what's wrong, you can't fix it. Talk to her and try to work this out.

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