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i have this situation where i had a boyfriend but i pushed him away because i was cheating on him with this guy that i fell for! i feel bad but my boyfriend and me had nothing in common and we never saw each other. my problem is that the guy i cheated on my boyfriend with has a girlfriend. i feel bad for her but then again i don't know her so it's not really that big of a deal. this guy complains about her all the time and says that he doesn't really have feelings for her anymore. but when it comes to me and him we both like each other A LOT well at least i do, he says he likes me alot and that he always misses me when we don't hang out but lately i haven't seen him or talked to him because he's been with his girlfriend. i don't know what to do or think. i'm scared that he doesn't like me anymore and losing my boyfriend was a big waste becuase now i'm alone still liking this guy and he has a girlfriend already what should i do? i don't want to forget about him or force him to do something that he doesn't want to do but i wanna be with him and i need to know if he wants to be with me or is he just messing around? me and him used to talk all the time for hours on the phone and see each other practically every weekend. he's a great guy and i want him to be my boyfriend but i fear that's never going to happen. please help me thank you!! Advice
First off, do you want to go out with a boyfriend who's a cheater? If he's cheating on his current girlfriend, then that means if he were to become your boyfriend, you could never trust him not to cheat on you too. You deserve better than that!

If he cares so much for you and hates his girlfriend, then why is he still with her? Why is he spending more time with her than with you? Obviously he's not as into your relationship as he appears to be. It's time to cut him loose and find someone who will give you what you deserve.

Good luck with this!

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