Flirting Help Needed
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
well i m still in school and i m trying to flirt with this one girl. she dusnt like me but i no i can get her too. the way i flirt most girls think is sweet and they like it she thinks its stupd and annoying, someone please help!
Ah, it's a big mistake to think that all girls are alike and you can treat them all the same. Every single girl is different, and each one reacts to different things. Also, you can never *make* someone like you. Every human being has their own inner guidelines, their list of likes and dislikes. I'm curious why you're dismissing all these girls who do like you the way you are, and you're chasing the girl who doesn't appreciate what you are. Sure, you can try to 'pretend to be someone else' to get her interest. But then when she discovers that you were lying to her that entire time, she'll like you even less. Honesty is one of the key things in any relationship. To actively lie to get one going is about the worst 'bad karma' you could saddle any relationship with.
It sounds like this girl might be much more serious and mature than the other girls you tend to chase. If you want to appeal to someone who is serious and mature, then that would be what you would aim for yourself. Talk to her about things she has an interest in. Treat her with respect instead of making fun of her. You might find she reacts well to those sorts of flirtations.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com