I'm Shy - Is She Interested?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi, i like this girl, i have liked her for about 2 years now. It was only the middle of last year that i have managed to make myself talk to her, though it was never anything more than a hi, or a short 30 second conversation. it was nearing the end of the year when i managed to tell her that i liked her. i felt that i would feel better if i just told her with the possibility of rejection, than waiting all summer holidays with my cowardness, with the fact i couldn't tell her. she "wasn't interested".i haven't talked to her since, she hasn't back. Now, know that i didn't have any advice that i have gained from this website, but i do now.
It was only when i was on the tram on my way home last week that anything happened. She waved at me and said "hi" as she got off at her stop, she looked a bit nervous and was gently biting her lip. i found that i liked her a hundred times more than i did before. Does this mean she likes me? after not talking to me for so long? how do i fix the damage i have wrought, how do i get her to like me, if she dosn't already.
Please. it would be a big help to know what to do next
i just hope you can help.
There is no possible way for me to know her feelings for you without ever having met her :) She did say hi to you on her own accord, and waved at you! That means she doesn't hate you. I would take that as a good sign :) So talk back to her! We all do stupid things. We all learn from them. Believe me, you're going to do MANY more stupid things in your life. We all do. Don't obsess about them. Learn from them and then go on with your life.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com