I Want Revenge
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend broke up recently. He broke my heart. I tried to do everything to have a good relationship with him, I love him. He didn't even break up with me face to face we are neighbors. We were like best friends, with the best relationship. Then he stoped calling me. According to psychologist him, and I both would be labeled under good, healthy, normal young people. However, I'm dont know about those studies. I do know that I love him but he broke my heart and I'm going to give him a taste of my own hurtful medicine. Why? I care about him enough to teach him. What's my prescription for him? You have to understand, guys are animals and so they follow their sexual urges like animals. In other words "I see girl I want to sdfd it". Any guy thats tells you any different is lying to you. When he see's me for now on, I'm going to turn up my swagger, and look more like the hot piece of girl he wants to sleep with badly. I'm going to give him the best sex he ever had (again), then I'm not going to call him. LOL
I don't think that qualifies as good, healthy or normal. He broke up with you - that happens to MOST relationships. Instead of getting over the relationship and going on with your life, you are going to obsess about causing another person harm? Obviously this relationship was NOT the best relationship despite your views, as he left. He was not happy in it. So you are going to punish him for not being happy by tormenting him. This activity is usually what has guys call girls psychotic :)
Guys are NOT animals, and I know a TON of guys that don't follow their sexual urges. I also know LOTS of girls who are driven by their sexual urges. It really sounds like you need to broaden your horizons and date more types of guys. Your view of what "all guys" are like is extremely narrow - and your method of dealing with breakups is extremely destructive.
-- from Lisa
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