I Want to Date my Friend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I meet this girl 2 years ago when she came to my school. Early last year she became my friend, and then I fell for her. She loved me too, but her parents wouldn't allow her on dates so we kinda put our relationship on hold. Over summer break I guess she forgot. Now I am madly in love with her and she doesn't like me. I talk to her and she seems to enjoy it, and I can't get my guts out to ask her out. I am also afraid she will say no. We are good friends but I want to be more. What should I do?
You say she doesn't like you - but then you say she enjoys talking to you! That sounds like she likes you to me. She doesn't hate you! You don't just dive into asking someone out. You work into it slowly, so that the person says yes. I have entire sets of tips and advice on how to do this on the site - read through it and work on it daily!
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com