Choosing between Two Guys
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I am torn between two lovers. one of them is a serious relationship that has lasted for a year now. i love him very much and he loves me too so he says. He is an older man, much older (I am 20 yrs old and he is 27 yrs old). I can see a very great loving life with him in the present and future tense. We just started getting very sexual with each other. I seriously can not describe how i feel in my heart about him.
But on the other hand I have this guy I used to be with for almost 2 years and I have alot of history with him and we are also very sexual. I love him very much too and he loves me so much.
I don't know what to do I love these guys so much with all of my heart and I don't know how to choose between them cause they seem to have the same pros and cons about them. Please please help me?
There comes a point in just about everybody's life where they have to choose. There are always good and bad points in each person. Only you can know how they both stack up. But if you are being sexual with both then you really SHOULD choose soon. The disease risk to them both is not a fair one.
Make up a list for each guy and list the important qualities about each one. Rank items with priorities for you. You have to choose, it's how life works. Let one of them go on to find someone else to be with, instead of stringing him along for months and months.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com