I Abandoned Her, Cheated, Gave Her a STD
Visitor's Question from a 51-60 year old Male
i recently got dumped by my girl i know that i deserved it. I did the worst to her i got her pregnant then after two months she had a miscarriage and went through two months of depression. I didnt know how to handle her anymore so i went to another woman for comfort and then i cheated on her i felt terrible it wasnt even pleasurable to me! but then when i had sex with my girl the next time she got an std man i was caught she said that it was ok and that we could make up then one day i came home and she was gone i feel guilty and bad at the same time she went to another guys house and now they are goin out and her stuff is still here i dont know what to do or say to her!!
That is exactly one of the reasons that cheating is so bad - you can give people very harmful and even deadly STDs by cheating on them. It's very understandable that she felt she couldn't trust you any more going forward. I would try to accept that she's gone, arrange to get the stuff out of the house, and then go forward with your life.
-- from Lisa
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