Self Esteem Issues
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
me i dont like the way i look and the way i am but my boyfriend loves the way i am.. What do i do?
There are probably few women out there that ARE super happy with how they look! We are raised in a society where perfect Barbie-Doll women are shown to us every single second on the TV and in movies and magazines. We all want to look like Barbie-Dolls and something is always wrong. Even women who you think are beautiful think they are flawed.
It is really critical that you learn to value what you are. We are all special, we are all unique, we are all beautiful in our own unique way. Talk to your friends and find one that is good at photography. Get the friend to take a picture of you and your boyfriend together, where you both look really happy. Put that picture on your wall and computer desktop and remind yourself - WE are a wonderful couple. You each are a beautiful part of that.
Developing a healthy self esteem is really, really important if you're going to be a happy person. Only you can do this for yourself.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com