My Girl Wants a Guy Who Is Taken

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Alright there's this girl that's in some of my classes at school, and i kinda got a crush on her. I know we are at least friends because we are always talking in school and on yahoo messanger. The only problem is one times she told me about this guy who she likes and spends time with. So I just waited a while. Meanwhile one of my friends told me he was going out with some other girl and that I should ask her out now. Then, the other day I got the idea that maybe she found out about him and that girl and didn't like him anymore. So I got enough courage to go ask her out, I had it all planned out. But then when I went to ask her that guy i thought she forgot about walked up and they started making plans to go out. So I just acted like nothing special was going to happen and walked away. I'm not sure if I should ask her out anyway, or maybe tell her about that guy's secret girlfriend. What should I do? Advice
Definitely tell her, as a friend. That needs to be the very first step, that she knows clearly that this guy is taken. But of course you might find out that SHE is the secret girlfriend ...

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