I'm Shy - Meeting Girls
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i have a problem. Some of my friends think of me as being shy but im still overcoming it and i dont think i am shy as some people think. Im a sophmore at highschool and there are freshmans that i really want to get to know and some of them have boyfriends but i still want to talk to them but i need a certain way to approach them and not be stupid because im the type of person that is not really good at keep a conversation with a girl.
I have made many mistakes with girls that ive wanted to be with and i feel like a sissy and that this shyness is just eating me away because its keeping me from going up to these girls and talking to them and i hate my self for not doing it because what i really think is that they will think something about me. I see girls looking at sometimes but i really dont know what they are thinking...most of the time i think that they are lookin at me like in a mean way but maybe there not. Girls tell me that im cute and some say im hott but my ways with girls are not good and i REALLY need to improve...Please ANY advice will help..Thanks
We ALL are shy in the beginning. And we all get better with practice. It all comes down to practice. I have a ton of advice about this on the site. Work on it every day, follow the advice, and you'll find you get better and better with each day you work on it.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com