I Want Him To Date Me!
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay, I'm 15 and I really like this guy who goes to my school. I've liked him for awhile and told him in many notes how I felt and how bad I wanted to date him. he never responded to any of them. I don't know what he is going to say because we are two very different people. Today, I went up to him and asked him if he was going to ever answer me and he said not to worry, he will. I'm not sure what that means. I'm afraid he will say no because I'm alittle bigger than most girls. what am I supposed to do. I like him alot. Please help me!
If you aren't even talking to this guy, then hounding him to date you is never going to work! How can you date if you can't even talk! Instead of leaping into dating, work on the friendship part first. Talk to him in the halls. Get to know him. Show him through daily conversation that you're fun to be with. Believe me, when he's ready, he'll go out with you. If you push him when he's not ready, then he'll run away and you'll never get that opportunity.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com