Dating an Ex

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I had been with my ex for just over two years when she found she was having problems with us. She decided she needed to be free of me for a while and she said she wanted her space or whatever. I was heartbroken. She said she would come back to me after a while but I have had too many bad relationships to fall for that. ...Then she came back!

But I was too hurt and a few friends had set me up with someone so now we were broken up for real. she had a real hard time with it and is now with another guy And I just broke up with this other girl because of this. It has been six months now and I have discovered that I want "us" back again. I love her too much to let her go!

is it possile to get her back? If so, how do I get her to remember how incredible it was! Advice
Remember, you have to be truly honest if you want this to work. It was NOT incredible before, because if it had been, she wouldn't have left. Something was bothering her, and you two weren't able to work it out together. That isn't a great sign. You have to talk about THAT if you want her back. Talk very openly and honestly about what bothered her while you were dating, so that you can understand it and find ways to address that in a second time around.

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