Asking a Girl Out
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
well theres this girl i really like, but im too shy to ask her out. i dont know if she likes me. we sit next to eachother in a class, and we talk to eachother a lot. she says im funny and stuff like that. we talk online too, and shes always typing "lol" or somethin,but it cud be just because i am funny(not trying to brag). also, i dont know whether or not shes goin out with this one boy.
now, i havent gone out with a girl in a while, and im pretty sure she is somewhat expereinced, and she hangs out with a completely different crowd then me. when i talk to her, i know she probably doesnt think im shy, even tho i am, so she might think i am not interested in her, since i havent asked her out yet. and im afraid if i do ask her, if she says yes, i'll be uncomfortable since its been a while. or if she says no, it will change everything between us and i wont be able to talk to her as a friend anymore. should i wait to ask her out, or just make the move now?
You don't have to make a giant deal about asking her out. Just do something casual with her like go to a movie with a group of friends. You have to build up the friendship level first, which isn't threatening at all. So work on that.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com