I'm Broken Up and Am Desperate in Wanting Him Back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend just broke up! I really really miss him! He was like my world! I mean he was my world because i don't have any kids or nething! Some of my friends say it's a good thing we broke up. But that's not at all what i'm thinking right now. I'm up all night thinking about him, my friends say it's getting to the point where it's just pathetic! PLEASE HELP ME HOW CAN I GET HIM BACK?!?!?!?!
I know it can be REALLY REALLY hard to get through a breakup. You get mad ideas about going right back to the guy. But think about this. If you guys ARE meant to be together, then it will happen. But the only way to know that is to be happy - be a really happy person - and THEN see if you want him in your life. A relationship should never be about dating someone because "I'm miserable when I am alone". If that is true, then that means anybody will do. However if you are really happy alone - and you *still* want to be with a certain person - it means that it is a great relationship.
Prove it to yourself and to your friends. Get through this period and be really happy on your own. And then when you are truly over rebound, meet up with him. See how you feel.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com