Getting my Summer Fling Back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i met a guy in the summer, and it was goind well, then i was going to university and we both decided to leave it as friends, (well actually he started to avoid the problem by ignoring me...but y'know whatever)
Anyway i was and still am really cut up over him, and then i found out that he got a new girlfriend, i was inconsoleable. He has since then broken up with the new girl becuase she also was leaving (she was from america and was going back home) . Anyway im now going home in a week, and i really want him back-but how do i do it in a way that maintains my self respect? please help me
It sounds like you had fun before during your summer fling, and that it was only the distance which cut it short. So concentrate on those happy, fun times you had together and just assume the 'end' of that phase of your relationship was the normal distance problem.
When you get back into town, touch base with him. Give him a call and say hi, that you're in town again and of course thought of him because you had so much fun. Be upbeat and friendly, that you remember the good times and want to have dinner with him again. Undoubtedly he'll be happy to be so well remembered, and agree to meet you. Then see how things go! Hopefully those old fun memories will spark a new fun relationship, and this time it'll stick a bit more.
-- from Jenn
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