My Ex is my Friend

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I broke up with my ex boyfried two yrs a go. The break up was really hard on me and i was hurt for some time. I started dating after and got over him finally.

The thing is one day he showed up in my house and said that he missed me and that he came to see me. I was flattered and gave him my new number. Since then we have been contacing on the phone ocastionally and met up for a coffee twice. He called me again and i told him that their won't be anything between us but i said that we are good friends.

One time he called me to tell me that he was offered a new house to live and and that he was delighted. I was not exited for him beacuse i wasn't felling very well then. Since then his phone has always been off and i am woried about him now. I know that the relationship won't work again but i love him as a person so much.I am so sad at the moment because i do not have any contact with him.

If you want to be friends with him, then be friends with him. Stay in contact and ask him how he's doing. Do all the things you would do with any other friend, to make sure they are ok.

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