I Kept My Child from Her Father
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I want my boy friend back. We were together for 3 years, we have a beautiful daughter together. We constantly argue, he's in what I call a rebound relationship. Part of me wants him back and part of me can't stand him because I feel betrayed because he's with someone else and not me. I've been very bitter by telling him stupid things like as long as the other woman is a part of you then you can't see your child. I know it was wrong and that is something I got to work on. I know why we seperated, I just want him back. It maybe for the wrong reasons, I don't know. But I know I love him. He told me he loves me, but he's not inlove with me. What do I do? Move on and hope he will return? Or just hand in the towel?
If you were doing things like withholding his ability to see his own child, it's not a big surprise that he is having issues trusting him now. That trust can take months if not years to rebuild. If you are willing to be patient and to work on that, then take your time and go slowly. If that's just too much time, then it's time to look for someone to find a fresh start with.
-- from Lisa
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