He Mistreats Me - I Stay With Him
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi i think that my man is cheating on me too. because he always says he will call me and then he never does and i am getting so god dang sick of it and its bad because when we are not together we get along so much more better then going out. when i call him like almost all the time he says oh well im busy playing out side or oh im busy playing video games and im like ok then he is all like ok bye and he doesnt even say he loves me and i dont think that he loves me and everytime we plan a date he never ever gos on it he always makes excuses and says well i cant i have no money even after i tell him to save money because of r date we have I asked him to go to couples with me and he chose to go do something else with his family that wasnt even that important over me so i dont know what to do. Does he love me or not?
i wish i knew i need some advice bad, im not able to take this anymore i mean he calls me a baby when i cry and says u cant always be such a baby when someone dumps u, you need to get over it, move on and then he says he hates me when we break up and then he ends up crawling back but i have only did it like maybe 5 times he only gave me one chance and i have him like over 20 and im tired of it but i love him so much i cant let him go because everytime i do i cry or get all depressed because i think that he is the one for me and i just cant figure it out anymore i dont know what should i do please help me.
He cheated on me the first year that we went out about three times and once last year with my worst enemy A and well he kissed her in the back room closet in class and didnt tell me till now and i was so hurt that he did that yet i still take him back because i think that he can change but honestly now i know he cant because all he does is walk all over me and denie it and then he says he never did it and well today we broke up but i still want him so do u think that i should take him back after all that.
HE also talks to his ex gf of last year and says she is just a friend and he talks to alote of his ex girlfriends, so does this mean he could be cheating on me? He tolled me when i thought i was pregnant he said he would never leave me or cheat on me and this was before i even knew he did and well also i treat him like he is my life i give him what ever the f he wants but i still keep him in check though because im not dumb i know how men work so i put him in check and then also oh my god he pushed me and hit me last year yet i still stayed with him because i love him but i hate the fact that he hits me and doesnt care at least i dont think he cares but email me is anyone has advice please ANY ADVICE WILL DO,
Of course you can let him go! Nobody deserves to be treated like a doormat. He's not going to change. He's going to keep taking advantage of you. Set up time with a local therapist, go talk every week, and stop seeing him. You need some time on your own here, away from him.
-- from Lisa
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