I'm Pressuring Her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i have a girl that i have been dating for a while...about 4 months we have never made out we are never alone we have had one time where we were alone and she didnt want to do anything she said that it was weird makin out with her mom in the next room yet she let me put my hands up her shirt and down her pants she had been telling me for weeks that she was ready to make out and when it came time she made up that excuse
neither one of us has made out before and i am starting to get bored but i really do love her but i am getting bored and its starting to scare me
how do i get her to realize that it is time to take it up a notch....please dont tell me that if u really love her you will wait or something stupid like other ppl have told me
Look, pressuring a girl is about the lowest thing a boyfriend can ever do. This girl does NOT want to go further yet - and you're trying to think up ways to pressure her into it.
If you think respecting you girlfriend's feelings on this is "stupid" then you are not ready to be dating. Go hang out with loose women if you want to get your sexual pleasures - but leave dating alone. Dating is about a guy who cares enough about a girl to be happy with her - and to respect her. Apparently your concerns are elsewhere.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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