I honestly want to have mad, passionate sex with him.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My neighbor and I have become a little cozy I honestly want to have mad, passionate sex with him. Yet I am married yet my husband and I have continus problems we are both young with children and for the first time since we have been together I have feelings for another man. Yet I am scared that I am seeking out for something that my neighbor probably doesn't want to give me and than I will be hurt again by another man. Iam so confused what do I do.
I put this under the Arguments/Fighting column because I don't think you are just looking for sex, you are looking for relief from an unpleasant relationship.
Your best bet would be to talk with your hubby about your fighting. Try to find out why you are fighting so much. Usually fighting over small stuff means that there is something big looming in the background that you don't want to talk about. Before you approach hubby, make a list of stuff that is bothering you. It will hurt, but you will have to be honest with yourself. When you approach hubby, don't be ready to arguy, talk gently and if it's too much for him in one conversation, let him know that you are willing to take it in small doses... just as long as you move foward for the sake of your relationship and for your family.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com