He Went Back to his ExGirlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I recently met this guy through my cousin. We hit it off pretty good. He was having some problems deciding if he wanted to go back to his exgirlfriend or ask me out. Well he told me he had wanted me, but then 2 days later took his exgirlfriend back. Now I want to be with him even more. How do I get him to fall in love with me? I miss him and I feel like I am nothing without him. Please help me.
Hormones definitely can make you fall for someone really hard - but you need to keep in mind that you only knew him for a short time. Much of what you felt about him was a combination of hormones and high expectations. You never had an opportunity to be disappointed, in essence.
He has chosen to give it a try with his ex. You can NEVER try to deliberately break up a couple and have it end up well. Even if you succeeded, he would always think of you as a 'relationship breaker' which is hardly the way in which you want to think of someone you want to date. You can be a friend - and you can learn more about him. But what he does is completely up to you. In the meantime, go on with your own life. There are many guys like him out there, ones that aren't already in love with another woman.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com