Should I accept his answer for now or should I not waste anymore time even though he says he wants to get married again one day and talks about us having a futre together?

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I have been dating a man for about 2 years. Our relationship is great and he knows I want to get married and have a family. He had been married before for 10 years and has an 11 year old son. He says he's not ready but I am 31 years old never been married or have children. Please advice. Advice
Time and tide stop for no man or woman. Ask him if there is a date he can give you a yes or no by. If he gives you a date that you are comfortable with, stay with him until that day, but don't mention it again once the date for answer has been set. On that day you will know whether or not to move on, and yes, if you will resent him for the rest of your life because your needs won't be fulfilled, it will be time to move on.

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