My question is how to tell if he really likes you?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been talking/dating this guy for 8 weeks now, he lives about an hour and 15 mintues away. I usually see him once one the weekend because he goes to school all week and then on the weekend he works part time. My question is how to tell if he really likes you? When I am with him he shows that he likes me by kissing me and holding my hand and so on. When we go out he always pays for everthing and never lets me pay for anything. I feel like I am ready for a relationship but I don't want him to think that I am rushing anything. He only has a few more weeks left till school is over and then he will be working full time. I guess I have been feeling inscure because I have not been in a relationship in a while and I just feel like I have so much in common with him and know that I really like him and I don't want to get hurt. When I asked him about what was going on between us he said just give it time. How much time should you give someone? I just feel so confussed and not sure exactly what he thinks. When I have asked him he has said that he really likes me and likes spending time with me. When we first starting talking he would call all the time, now he calls once at nighttime usually. I just want to know if this could be something more. What can I do to try and find out. Pleas help me....
It seems like you are on the route to a relationship. Give him some time to adjust to his new work situation and then ask him where things stand with you two. Depending on the answer you should act accordingly.
-- from Marc
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