My boyfriend and I get along great most of the time.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend and I get along great most of the time. At school, we have a class together every morning, and all my friends are in there as well. He sits in front of me, my best friend sits on the left of me, and my other two friends sit on the right of him and I. Well, one of my friends is becoming better friends with my boyfriend. They talk together, share funny moments, and even share an occassional inside joke. It even goes as far as her punching him playfully on the shoulder. This really gets me upset. He hardly turns around to talk to me, and starts more conversations with my friends than me. It makes me feel stupid and boring when he doesn't want to talk to me. I tend to get jealous and talk to him about it, but he always thinks I'm trying to "change him." I really hate him when he acts like this, so what do I do?
Don't get too jealous. He may just be so used to having you around that he's starting to take you for granted. Gently let him know how you feel.
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