I'm Waiting for Him to Make the Move
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I have been talking on the phone with this certain guy, and got the nerve to e-mail him to ask if he would be interested in meeting up sometime, he replied yes, but it has been a few weeks now, and we still haven't gotten together, I seem to be the one, that is more interested in doing this.
Should I be totally concerned? Or am I being too impatient?
OK yes you emailed him a vague request and he showed interest. But then you just sat around hoping he'd follow through on it? Some people are just natural planners and some are not. You see this in any relationship, that one person makes the reservations and the other person shows up. It's not that he's 'bad'. He's just not an organizer.
So it's time for you to make something more concrete. Find a movie you want to see and invite him along. I bet he'll go!
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com