Moving from Friend to Romance
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I like this guy, but i'm not sure whether or not he still likes me. He told one of our mutual friends back in March that he did, but nothings really come from it. We have a lot of the same interests and we always have good conversations, but we can't talk about dating and stuff like that with each other. I've never dated anyone before and I have no clue what to do, should I just come straight out and tell him how I feel, or try to find out a little more first?.
If you have common interests and enjoy talking to each other, it sounds like the perfect friendship to move along into dating! Talking and common interests are two of the most important things to have before you date someone.
I have pages and pages of notes on how to move along from friendship to dating. You don't just leap in. You go slowly and see how he responds.
Start reading the general how-to
and then look through the rest of the site, I have many notes in there about moving the contact up gradually, until it's normal to be hugging, then normal for a cheek kiss, and finally, you're at the dating stage.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com