Is It Love?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
how do you know if she loves you or just using you
I have a ton of pages on the site about is it love. Love comes down to really knowing someone, really understanding them, knowing their bad and good and being happy to be with them and support their dreams.
So the question is, is she with you because she wants to be with YOU, to help you get to your goals and so you can help her reach her goals? Or is she with you because you buy her things and it is those things that she values?
If you're showering her with things, it might be time to stop. People who love each other value their time together, their shared activities, more than anything else. If she is demanding constant presents and proof, it might be time to have a serious talk.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com