The First Time
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok, i am 15 years old and i have a 16 year old boyfriend. i really, really enjoy being with him and i really believe i love him. he always tells me how much he loves me too.
i really believe that i am ready to lose my virginity to him and he is always pleasing me in every way he can. But we dont have a good place to do it. What do i do? Do i wait or do i just do it wherever. Keep in mind that i really believe that im ready to have sex.(My hormones are really kicking)
Hormones are great, but intercourse can create babies. No matter what precautions you take, there is always the risk of a real, live baby starting to form in your uterus. So you have to ask yourself if you're really ready to take that risk. Remember, even condoms have issues. Nothing is foolproof.
Yes, you love those pleasure feelings. But you can EASILY get those without intercourse! There must be 80 million different ways for a man and a woman to give each other incredible pleasure that lasts hours and hours. I would really investigate all those other ways and enjoy them. For most women, in fact, the pleasure they get from those other methods are far more than the pleasure they get from intercourse.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com