I Want to Make Him Mine
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i want 1 boy for 3 yrs. but he doesn't want me. i want to make him mine.
how do i make him mine? what shall i do to make him realise that he is made for me n not for some other girl? pliz help. need ur advice.
I think you missed my FAQ that said you can never make someone like you :) People are not robots. You can't just push buttons and make them do what you want them to do. We are all unique individuals with very personal wants and desires. This guy has been alive on this earth for many years and every single hour of that time he was learning and expanding and making decisions. So he is a very complex individual now. You can't just rewire him to fit your needs.
The happiest relationships in the world are between two best friends. So if you really wanted to make this work, become his best friend. Spend time with him, do things that you both enjoy, talk about things that you both enjoy talking about. If you two can become best friends, then the rest will happen naturally. But if you simply are not compatible with him, and if you can't find a way to spend time with him that he enjoys, there's really no "base" for any relationship to grow on.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com