Strange Flirting with Sisters

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I saw this girl at my school campus and out of the blue she started to talk to me for like alomost 3 hours, so I decided to listen.She told me I was her new friend. she said, I cant believe how much time has passed while we were talking.Then she was joking with me then she rubbed my knee.
I knew we have a great connection.She was flirting playing with her necklace.Then later on her sister came by and said are you hungry, then i was like I have to get going. So, after that she gave me a hug and said I'll see ya later and I said the same.Then as I left oh I forgot my soda and as I went passed she rubbed my arm/elbow area.

Then after I got done with my tutor session I went to the other building and long the way her sister said hello and then I said but i didn't react to it. As i went to the other buildings lounge I was throwing away my bottle then I saw her putting food in the microwave then she cam over by me and said hello and then i said hello, then I gave her a goofy face and she touched me in the stomach area then I did it to her and we were laughin. Then we sat down together and she was talking me for like an hour and a half. But during that time she was touching my arm a few times. And she was laughing at my stupid voices.

But the problem is she has a boyfriend and he goes to school in florida and wont see him 'til may. And she told me he was saying I love you and she was avoiding that And he said lets get married but it seems to me she got scared off and they're only together for like a year. She doesn't know if she loves him or not after something like that.

We were together for like 6 plus hours. And we were watching a movie together. And she kept on smiling at me.I saw a commercial of suzikifest and I thought it said suckyfest, then she said its ok and laughed then she rubbed me on the arm, like she knew I was nervous.After that then she hugged me agian and I'll see ya later.

And today tuesday, I saw her sister then she said hello, like she wanted to tell me something but didn't react to it agian.and I really like her. So, I need some help with this thanks? Advice
You guy sound like you're having fun flirting - but remember that she's taken. She could easily be using you as a fun local friend to keep the edge off her loneliness. I wouldn't expect her to ditch her long term boyfriend because of a new friendship. It's fine to build up friendships, but don't pressure her into more - take it slow and easy and see how things progress. Some girls are just naturally flirtatious and don't mean anything more by it.

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